3 Online Dating Tips That Nobody Told You About

3 Online Dating Tips That Nobody Told You About

If you have the internet, then surely you are not new to online dating. Yes, online dating is fun, an exciting way to meet new friends and it can be really addictive. However, you must be warned of things you should look out for before you try online dating. There have been more and more reported cases of identity theft or fraud on some sites. To avoid such problems and scams, here are 3 basic online dating tips that can help you.

#1 Online Dating Tip

Tell No One Anything.

Do not reveal any of your private information to anyone on any online dating site. Information like phone number, address should never be revealed to anyone, even if you have known them online for sometime or have been talking to them. You will never know who is really behind that persona you are talking to. The picture in the profile might not even be the real person! It pays to be cautious when dealing with anyone online. Some of these cyber criminals may even attempt try to trick you to reveal more personal information by pretending to be one of your friends. With such tricksters abound online, you must be paranoia about revealing any information to anyone online.

#2 Online Dating Tip

No site is safe. Period.

Having a website does not mean that whoever owns it is credible. Some owners of online dating websites will lure you in, request all your personal information and then sell those information to stalkers or other cyber criminals. Sometimes they sell these information to other companies which may seem legitimate but they in turn might resell your information to dubious characters. Also note that online dating websites that require you to enter a detailed password do not always mean a secure site. Always check that these websites have encryption enabled when you are submitting your information. Read all the fine print on privacy statement on the online dating sites. Find out exactly what they can do and what they cannot do with your information. If possible, stick to mainstream or a famous online dating site. Sure, they are more expensive but the price is worth it to protect your identity from being stolen.

#3 Online Dating Tip.

Use a nickname

Never use your real name on the online dating site. Use a nickname or an alias instead. For example if your name is Jane Doe, use something else like lovewitch2007 instead. And if someone does ask you for your real name, you can give them a fake one.

All these online dating tips are meant to be basic guidelines that you should adhere to in order to protect yourself at any online dating site. You may be surprised at what people can find out online. It is better to be safe than sorry when you find out that "you" have been commiting cyber crimes online and you have to go through the hassle of proving that it was not you.

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Why Sex Online Dating Services Are So Popular

Why Sex Online Dating Services Are So Popular by Jason KIng

Sex online dating services are by far the most popular dating services on the internet at the moment. Hundreds of thousands of singles go out every weekend to hopefully find a partner to take home for a one night stand. A sex online dating service is a central hub for all these singles to meet without the need to go out looking for their catch.

More singles are realizing the benefits of meeting someone online first. They want the safety of chatting to someone online first while they're sober, and in full control of their senses. Meeting someone online first after viewing their profile gives you an idea of what the person is like before you have to chat to them. Questions are answered for you before a word is spoken so you don't wonder why you started talking to them in the first place.

The cost of meeting singles for sex online is a lot more value as well. A months subscription is less than one night out, and you have the chance of searching through thousands of profiles. That's more singles than you could meet in a whole year going down the club route. And you have the advantage of knowing all of the profiles are of singles that are already looking for sex. This can save a lot of time talking to someone all night only to find out they just want to be friends.

The only disadvantage of meeting someone on the internet for sex is you can't just leave and go off somewhere. You have to make arrangements first. This is where you're safety is a lot better with meeting online for sex instead of a club or bar. A club or bar meeting can put you in a position that you can't get out of, and may regret later.

There are plenty of reviews online for sex dating services. These services are so popular anyway that they must be doing something right. You will find thousands of singles looking for sex in your area if you live in or near a major city or state. Creating your profile will take you about 5 to 10 minutes. Then you have the chance of being contacted by the thousands of singles in your area. It could open up a whole new chapter in your life. It will be a big change from having the choice of a few singles at a club on a Saturday night.

If you have a web cam you will be able to use it in the adult chat rooms at the sex dating web sites. These are the most popular chat rooms on the internet as well. The more imagination you have the more popular you will become.

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The Psychology Of Online Dating: She Wants And He Is

The Psychology Of Online Dating: She Wants And He Is

In the first article in this series (The Psychologists Viewpoint) I outlined how psychologists have investigated attraction and dating preferences by looking at the contents of personal advertisement and online dating profiles.

The second article (He Wants and She is) described the sort of things men say they are looking for in a partner. In this article we turns things on their head and consider what women have said they want in a partner as well as how men describe themselves and whether this matches women’s desires.

Before we begin, please spend a few moments and think of about four general things that you think women are typically looking for in a partner … now let’s see what scientific research has revealed.

What does the research say?

When looking at sex differences in what’s sought from a partner, two factors stand head and shoulders above the rest and are reported so often in the research literature that it would be remarkable if any researcher failed to find these results. In the previous article we discussed the fact that men are far more interested in a partner’s attractiveness than women are. The thing that women look for but men don’t is wealth.

In fact it is only a small minority of women who directly say they are looking for someone rich and we need to take a slightly broader view of what constitutes wealth or at least financial stability. Some of the phrases encountered do refer directly to wealth (e.g. ‘rich’ and ‘financially secure’) but in many cases women will say they are looking for a partner who has specific assets (e.g. ‘own house’) or employment (e.g. ‘business type’, ‘professional’ or even just ‘working’). Alternatively, the thing mentioned might be a personal attribute that, while it could be viewed as sought for its own sake, implies an aptitude or capacity to earn now or in the future (e.g. ‘ambitious’, ‘intelligent’ or ‘college educated’).

Taking money, assets, employment and aptitudes separately, in each case women are more likely to say they are looking for a partner with these characteristics than men are. When taken as an overall category of features implying wealth or the capacity to earn, research has consistently shown women are more interested in a partner having these features than men. For example, in 2003 I presented some results to colleagues based on my collection of nearly 5000 advertisements. Within this set of data, women were six times more likely than men to mention one of the above as a desirable characteristic in a partner.

Men seem to be fully aware of what women are looking for as they are consistently more likely than women to mention that they are financially secure, well educated, or have personal qualities that might be expected to lead to wealth or security. Often this is done directly through a bald mention of personal assets such as ‘own house and car’ (a phrase used so frequently it is often abbreviated to ‘OHAC’) or men may be more subtle and include something in their description that implies wealth such as ‘hobbies include good restaurants, opera, sailing and regular holidays overseas.’

Male interest in attractiveness and female interest in wealth are both pretty clear cut. You will recall the other things men wanted in a partner were also physical features of one kind or another. Women’s desires, however, are not as simple as this. Apart from wealth (or at least financial stability/promise) there are three other factors that women are just as interested in and just as likely to mention when seeking a partner.

The first of these is a difficult concept to pin down as different researchers view it in different ways depending on how phrases are grouped together. For example, if we consider phrases such as ‘expressive’, ‘sensitive’ and ‘open’ as referring to something different to phrases such as ‘warm’, ‘loving’ and ‘romantic’ then both our ‘expressiveness’ and our ‘warmth’ categories will have relatively smaller numbers of adverts than a general category containing all these phrases. Where researchers do group these together and look for what might be called positive emotional characteristics as a single category, then women are just as interested in finding a partner like this as they are in a partner’s wealth and resources. Men are also pretty interested in finding someone who they describe using phrases of this type but not as interested as women are. However men are certainly aware of women’s desires in this area as they are considerably more likely than women to describe themselves as having these female-valued emotional characteristics.

Another characteristic that men often lay claim to, and women often seek, is identified by phrases such as ‘honest’, ‘genuine’, ‘faithful’ and ‘committed’. If we take these phrases as indicating the desire for a partner who is open to having an ongoing relationship and who is not going to mess you around, then this is something women are also as interested in as wealth and emotionality.

The last female-valued attribute I want to mention is physical and is the only physical attribute that women seek more often than men do. It is height.

Whether a specific height is mentioned or whether it is simply the use of the adjective ‘taller’ when describing a partner, women are far more interested in a man’s height than men are in a woman’s, and they almost invariably want men who are tall, or at least taller than they are themselves. This result has been found in numerous studies of personal advertisement and was borne out again recently in a novel study of speed dating events. Researchers at the University of Essex looked at the characteristics of men who were more or less successful at getting invitations to follow-up dates at speed dating events. They found the men who were most successful at any particular event were usually among the tallest present.

Men seem to be aware of this female preference as they are far more likely to mention their height than women. This may be an assertion that they are ‘tall’ or they may give an actual height. However in my sample of personal advertisements, the average male height (where it is mentioned) is 5 feet 10 inches. This is significantly taller than the average adult male height in the UK population so either these men were inflating their heights or only the taller men mentioned it.

In summary, based on extensive research looking at what women say they want in a partner, the four main characteristics that emerge are wealth (or at least financial security), positive emotional characteristics (such a warmth, openness and sensitivity), someone who is honest and open to forming an ongoing relationship, and height.

How can we use this?

In the previous article I used this subheading as an opportunity to advise women on how they can present themselves to attract initial male attention. In this article I am not going to do this as I think the research above speaks for itself, and I want to explore briefly the moral dilemma I had about writing these articles, particularly this one. It is to do with deception.

There is no doubt that deception is widely used when seeking a date. From a psychological perspective, women’s use of makeup, hair dye and body shaping knickers are actually forms of deception that are specifically targeted at the physical features that men are interested in. Now I am not asserting a moral position here as these forms of deception are widespread and socially acceptable, not to mention (in the case of makeup) visually detectable. I more want to make the point that although they may not usually be viewed this way, they are in fact methods used by women to deceive men about their male-valued characteristics.

Given the above, we should also expect men will use deception to make themselves more attractive to women. Furthermore, deception is most likely to involve exactly the things that women seek in a partner. Unfortunately these are intangibles such as personality characteristics that cannot be immediately observed, leaving men much greater scope to lie.

If you are a man who is genuinely sensitive, financially stable, and looking for a real relationship then please do mention this in your personal advertisement as you will probably get a better response, but also bear in mind that many others will be (perhaps falsely) emphasising these features so don’t expect women to take any such claims at face value. Women looking for someone like this will and indeed should take the time to get to know someone. It is well known that women prefer to develop relationships slowly and given what I have said above, this is not only understandable but could also be viewed as another way to test a man’s character. If he really is sensitive and committed then a slow start to a relationship should not be a problem.

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The next article takes some of the results mentioned in this and the previous article and uses these to explore theories of attraction. This may sound a bit dry but the main aim of the article is to introduce you to a current psychological theory of attraction that you can use to assess your own value in the ‘mating market’.

By: Richard Atkins
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How To Be Successful At Online Dating

How To Be Successful At Online Dating by Ron Zvagelsky

The worldwide web has been a getaway to everything - online shopping, medical consultation and yes, you can even find a date online.

With such a fast-paced world, dating has been set to the next level. But no matter how quick you convert chats and private messaging into real life dates, online relationships can absolutely turn into something steady and serious.

If you are ready to plunge into the world of online dating, here are some tips to make you successful in your feat:

Work on Your Profile If someone were looking for a date online, whether through chat or MySpace, your profile would be the first thing that he or she would check out. Avoid writing about negative things in your profile - a positive aura always attracts people in a good way. Be creative and clever in creating your profile. Also, try to comparing yourself with someone famous or a movie character so as to paint a picture of your personality.

Picture Perfect Try to post your best picture. Posting pictures of cartoon characters or celebrities instead of your own can give the impression that you are trying to be someone that you are not.

Don't Rush Things Don't arrange for a meet-up right away. Take time to get to know your would-be date either on chat or through private messaging (a week or so would do). If you can, get his/her cellphone number so that you can call or text them whenever either of you goes offline. Your previous conversations with them can make things easier when you decide to go out on a real date.

Be Consistent There are some people that you share a good first conversation with. The key to honing an online relationship is constant communication. See to it that you send a message to your someone on a regular basis. Remember that there are probably hundreds of other people that he/she is chatting with, so make a move to let him/her know you're still interested!

Although dating in the online world is in such a hurried state, you should not be. Take time to get to know a person and share something about yourself as well. If you both hit it off on the internet, chances are you may be compatible offline as well. Now that's something to look forward to.
About the Author

Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business Administration from the University of Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is currently the Chief Executive Officer of PlanJam - an interactive website offering dating advice.

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What Attracts Women 101

What Attracts Women 101

It has been a well accepted fact that men are basically clueless to whatever it is that attracts women. In fact, some reports contend that women are so hard to comprehend that even if men master how to decode their body language, still, they just could not understand women, in one way or another.

According to some studies, 3 out of 10 men are can attest that they really understand women.

The remaining 7, you ask? They are out in the haystack finding needles. This means that almost 70% of the men population in the U.S. contends that whatever they do, they still could not figure out how to understand women.

For this reason, men are having a hard time to figure out what attract women sexually and romantically in a relationship. 6 out of ten men attest that women are so unpredictable that what they thought women are attracted to, they suddenly realize in the end that it is not the right things after all.

So for those who are still confused, dazed, and perplexed on what attracts women, here is a list that could serve as your guide if you want to know how to catch your girl’s attention:

1. Women are not attracted to “nice guys”

There are instances wherein some guys thought that in order to attract women, they must be good looking, smells really good, dress really good, and projects a goody-two-shoes image.

What these guys do not know is that, in reality, women are more attracted to men who project “bad-boy” image rather than those who are nice. This is because most women find nice guys relatively boring and uninteresting as compared to those who are funny and confident about themselves.

Surveys show that 30% of women value personality most. Though, this does not necessarily mean that women prefer nice personalities. What women would rather have are men who have lovable personalities brought about by their sense of humor and confidence.

The point is that some clinical studies done to uncover the truth about men and women revealed that men are, generally, more concerned with their looks, while women are more into the character and the way men behave around women.

2. Women are attracted to things that cannot be initially seen by the human eye

This goes to show that innate things, those that are not constrained by physical boundaries and limitations are what really attract women. Women are more concerned with what they cannot see literally. This could refer to personality traits, behavior, and attitude.

No wonder why most women would rather date a man who has good personality even if the guy is not good looking or he does not have a car.

3. Women are more attracted to men who knows how to handle themselves quite well

The problem with most men is that they are very egoistic that they are more focused on what the public would see them.

On the contrary, women are not so much on what makes a man but rather on how man makes out of himself. For instance, women are not concerned on the physical attributes of a man but more on how the man takes care of his body.

Another example, if a particular man is rich and famous, it may hold some possible attraction between the man and a woman. However, this will not guarantee that women will opt to have the rich and famous for a relationship. If the woman will be able to perceive how this man manages his finances well, then, that is the only time the woman will pay attention to the guy.

The point here is that material things like wealth, looks, physical attributes, education, influence, power, etc., still do matter. However, it these do not necessarily mean that these things are everything that a man needs in order to be attractive to women.

The truth is that in order to attract women, men must, generally, have nice attitude and personality. It is only when men make women feel that whenever women are with them, they would feel safe and secured.

Given all that, women and men view of the concept of attraction varies considerably. This goes to show that if ever a man would like to attract a particular woman, he should set aside his own point of view and interest, and instead, try to work out in order to catch the attention of the woman.

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Getting To Your First Date

Getting To Your First Date

Getting to that first date is what online dating is all about. You may have no trouble at all planning your next steps but for some it's very different. Some singles have chosen the online dating route because the offline approach can be a bit intimidating. But in the end you have to have that offline date, and you have to be ready at some point to bite the bullet.

This is the most exciting part of online dating. Meeting that single offline that you have been getting to know for a short while. You would have been sending each other e-mails chatting on your instant messenger while slowly building a relationship. Once you have started some communication that's the hard part over with. You've already broken the ice so the first date should be just a formality.

You can warm yourself up to it more by having a couple of phone calls first. Getting to the first date isn't a race, you have to pace yourself. See what the relationship is like over the phone. You will tell a lot more about someone when they are actually speaking rather than typing messages. It will confirm that you have the same connection when chatting for real as you had online. See if they like your humor over the phone. It's not the time to get nervous as it will be the same for both of you. You don't need to feel any love coming over the line you just need to feel your getting along well. If the first phone call is very successful then there will be no need for a second one. Let the phone call flow into the first offline date.

When you go on the first date arrange somewhere quiet like a coffee shop. This is just going to be a trial for your second date, when you can go to a nice restaurant. The first date you're still in the getting used to each other stage. You don't want to be doing that over a nice meal. When you're eating a meal you want to feel comfortable so the first date will get the initial bonding out of the way.

Keep the date short as well so you leave them wanting more. Have your questions in your mind before you go. You don't want to run the date into any uncomfortable silences. Even if there's more you would love to know, leave it for the second date. You will open up with each other easier, and your questions will be answered with a more open attitude.

Don't ever get disheartened if your date offline doesn't go to plan. The first single you date will not be the one you end up marrying. Use it a learning experience. It will make the next one a lot easier, and then if that one doesn't work out the next one will be easier still. If they're not a success then they just wasn't meant to be. It won't be anyone's fault. You will just need to get over it, and move on to the next one, which you will look more forward too.

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Online Lovers Quarrels: A Whole New Ball Game

Online Lovers Quarrels: A Whole New Ball Game

Throughout the ages, one of the hardest things about romantic relationships has always been resolving conflict. Those wise couples that work hard at their love affairs seem to develop rules to govern how they will behave when they fight. But in a face-to-face argument, you have the input from facial expressions, the sound and inflection of voice, and many other clues to let you know what he or she is really saying.

But in our modern world, a new kind of romantic relationship is becoming common that you may be thinking about or involved in. These are romances conducted on the internet. Cyber-relationships are exciting and fun and full of adventure. They take some getting used to, though, because instead of communicating through the spoken word and eye contact, so much of what goes on occurs in emails, instant messaging exchanges, and chat rooms.

Learning how to navigate this world requires almost a whole new language. We have to learn about how chatters talk using acronyms and little faces called emoticons. But in a world where every romantic opportunity could be the one you were meant to be with, we don’t want to look away from any world of romance that holds potential.

However, just as conflict and arguments get tricky in face-to-face romances, the problem is compounded significantly with a cyber-relationship where so much of what we say and communicate occurs just through words and even happens with greater spans of time. If you get a message from your lover that hurts your feelings, causes pain or grief, you need some ways to figure out how to resolve it successfully to get the relationship back on track to romance and excitement again. So let’s set up some rules for getting past the fight and back to that lovey-dovey relationship you both so enjoy.

- Think before you hit send: If the fight is occurring through email, you have some time before you have to respond. Even in instant message chats, your responses can be slower than in a face-to-face fight. Teach yourself not to go with your first reaction and try to use the delay of the internet to think before you lash out and make matters worse.

- Review, review, review: Even when you do draft your response, go back and read what he or she wrote before you hit send. It’s very likely you may not have read it correctly and once you get the real message they are sending , you can revise your response.

- Take it at face value: The problem with email or instant messages is you only have the words. So try not to read attitude or mood into the message. A common mistake is if the person writes in all capital letters, they must be angry. It takes discipline not to impose your feelings and anxieties on the chat and give yourself perspective, but you can avoid countless misunderstandings that way. Also, don’t be sensitive about spelling or punctuation in these exchanges. It doesn’t mean they are insulting you or don’t know how to write, they are just in the passion of the moment, just like you are.

- Use your “lifelines”: If the exchange gives you some time, such as email often does, go ahead and discuss the fight with your family or close friends. The one thing that goes out the window in any fight is your objectivity and perspective so use someone else’s to get a feel for what may be going on.

Discuss your conflict resolution rules with your sweetheart at times when you are on good terms and lay down some guidelines. Then when the fight is in full engagement, you both can reference those rules and throw some water on the fire before it damages something important to both of you.

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Flirting Tips for Men: Mastering the Art of Online Flirting

Flirting Tips for Men: Mastering the Art of Online Flirting

Flirting online can be difficult. This mainly is because flirting has always been physical, involving body language such as eye-contact, smiling etc. Flirting through a modem therefore poses a certain challenge. But it can be done.

Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT (Over The Top). Many of the same things work for online flirting as in "brick and mortar" flirting. A delicate balance born of insight as well as experience is still required. Why?

Well, go too far and she will label you "slimy". Don't go far enough and she will label you "wimpy". So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?

1. Have fun! Flirting is playful. Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. But, don't go too far with humor at the beginning. Try to gauge what kind of humor you can get away with.

2. Keep it simple. Use short emails or messages, and day to day conversational language.

3. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life, which is often infectious. You need to transmit the "feel good" factor. Women have always been attracted to confident, optimistic men.

4. Listen to her. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Successful flirts often use their "third ear". What is that? It is listening beyond what is spoken, or in our case, reading between the lines of her messages. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her.

5. Compliment her. And be sincere. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. Look for something unique or subtle to compliment her about. Beautiful women often grow tired of being told they are beautiful.

6. Avoid sexual overtones. Flirting does not have to include being sexual suggestions and innuendos: this might actually turn her.

7. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful online flirting.

Take it slow. Don't try to go too fast. Remember you are only a click away from being shut out. Done right, online flirting can be the first step to a successful and long-lasting relationship.

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7 tips to seducing a woman online

7 tips to seducing a woman online by Kij0

If you're a woman online, odds are men will periodically test their luck and hit on you. Which is all fine and well, I personally enjoy flirting and your occasional ego petting however.... In the past week alone, I have had enough of the same old lame antics to irritate me into writing this article. I am dead sick of men using the same moronic tactics over and over again. It's almost as if they all subscribe to some man manual for internet dating. 98% of the time you can almost anticipate the next line, because they seem to be reading from a script.

So fella's let me dispel some of your 'man manual' myths. I can not speak for all women, but I assure you the majority would agree with my thinking, when it comes to these seven rules to seducing women.

1. Speak intelligently:

Example - ur so hawt! If you really feel you must tell her this, speak english! Unless the lady in question is in the 14-16 year old range, and happens to think talking like a thug or retard is soooo kewl, all you are doing is looking like a fool. Men may get excited over a simple statement like "Wow! You're hot!" but it takes a LOT more than a badly written statement to turn a woman on. If you can't spare more than a few sentences to get me typing hot and heavy, GO AWAY!

2. Don't overuse Generic nicknames:

Example: Constant use of Baby, honey, sexy

A promiscuous woman once told me her golden rule. Use generic terms! If all you ever use is honey or baby, you can easily swap the same material for multiple people. You never get confused and scream the wrong name in bed either. So please treat her as an individual to let her know you aren't just copy/pasting the same old lines to a bunch of different tabs.

Please don't mistake this for saying her name every other word, overkill is seen as a sales pitch.

3. Pay attention:

This one kills me. In fact if I have to repeat the same thing to you odds are I will just stop talking to you and/or block you. Here is an example.

« joe-typical » hi are you busy right now? « Kij0 » allo, yeah a little, working on my website, I'm on a deadline. « joe-typical » what are you up to? « Kij0 » working on my website « joe-typical» are you doing anything right now? « Kij0 » yep, uploading some files for the website « joe-typical » how have you been? « Kij0 » pretty good, you? « joe-typical » great. do you want to play a game? « Kij0 »I can't just now sorry, I have to finish this. « joe-typical » why? « Kij0 » I'm on a deadline « joe-typical » oh, that sucks « joe-typical » So... do you have a website?

Believe it or not I get many versions of the same thing shown there. If you can't comprehend a simple sentence, or maintain a conversation without forgetting what was said 2-3 lines up (and is probably still visible in your window) then you are not paying attention. If you are not paying attention, you are not getting her attention.

4.Get her name right!

I am quite frequently asked how to pronounce my nick. It sounds like it looks but for a little phonetic support I usually say "it sounds like key-joe". I was speaking to an online DJ once, and he thought he might impress me by dedicating songs to me, and saying my name on air. Well the first time he did he pronounced my name as keye-jew so, I corrected him. I showed him the phonetic spelling and even recorded a quick audio clip saying my name.

He replied that he didn't like my nick and would rather call me Ki(keye). It may seem harsh but I chose my nick in part because I don't like nick names especially nick names for nick names. It's a whole four letters, not so far apart on the keyboard that it's hard to type,it only takes one hand! Vocally it's a whopping two syllables. For several days whenever he was on air, or in chat he would still either call me Keye or pronounce it keye-jew, I corrected him at least 10 times.

He really iced the cake when a couple days later he caught up to me on MSN messenger. He began the conversation with "Ki you hawt moma! I have a special audio clip just for you." I'm not sure exactly what a 'moma' is but hey typo's are just common mistakes, no harm done. I listened to the clip only to hear him saying my name (pronounced Keye-jew) repeatedly with some heavy breathing.

Oh he got me hot alright, but not the way he intended. Heavy breathing is for prank callers, and you certainly don't have much respect for someone if you don't care about something as basic as their name, especially If they've already corrected you more than once. He may as well have called me Mary. If you can't manage to commit her name to memory odds are she isn't going to give you the time of day.

5.Don't assume she is stupid:

Of all the wrong things to do, this one is the worst in my opinion. I've spent close to seven years online, I am very familiar with IRC, messengers, email, graphics and I also have two websites, one that I am building entirely myself. I'm not the world's foremost authority on even my best subject, but it's pretty safe to say I am well versed in computers. Still even after having clearly stated roughly the above men will still try to 'walk me through' clicking a link. If this person had seen tip #3 this would not happen.

6. Don't BE stupid

In any group, be it chat rooms, yahoo groups, forums, or gamerooms women talk to each other. We talk about all kinds of feelings and things of a personal nature. You can be fairly certain that if she is having feelings for someone, one of her girlfriends knows it. If you are talking to four different women or speaking poorly of a girl to another, odds are you're not the super stealthy manbeast you think you are. Girls will simply message each other and warn everyone what a 'playa' you are.

7. Slow down!

Last but not least you need to talk to someone for more than 15 minutes before you are positive you are in love with them. Talk about insulting someone's intelligence... "Wow I've never met anyone like you before! I really think I'm going to have very strong feelings for you! Is it just me or does that just jump up and yell STALKER!!! ? I can promise you are not going to connect with someone until you get to know them, and you are not going to know them very well without at least a few weeks to build a rapport.

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Tricking the Tricky: How to Tell If Your Cyber Date is Lying

Tricking the Tricky: How to Tell If Your Cyber Date is Lying

In online dating, we meet a lot of people through the tools of instant messaging, email, and chat rooms. But putting up a fake profile to others in chat settings is epidemic online. So you need some tips on how to spot what they call a “poser” online.

It’s a strange phenomenon but you meet someone in chat and they start to open up to you. Before long you figure out this person is posing. Posing takes on many forms. It might be a man posing as a woman. It might be someone not being his or her real age. You wonder, Why do they do it? Well the reasons, while sad, are not that hard to understand.

To get some attention. Being in a chat room and not getting any chats is a very lonely experience. If a guy cannot get a conversation with a girl, he might pose as a girl just for the conversation. They use the fake ID to replace what a good personality and ability to be real would get them otherwise.

In a word . . . for sex. The dirty underbelly of chat rooms is online sex. Now there is nothing wrong with cybersex in its own right, but when you are online to find a relationship, a romance and a soul mate, going straight to sex just doesn’t work. But for many online, that is all they want and by giving you the most attractive image they can dream up, they often get what they want.

To harvest future contacts. In some chat services, you can have multiple profiles or personas. So one ploy posers use is to meet you perhaps as the same gender as you are, become “friends” and learn what you like and dislike in a lover and then build a profile to give you just that thing. It’s manipulation and it’s wrong but it happens. So what you need are ways to sort out if the person you are chatting with is genuine or a fake. If you find a fake, you can decide what to do about it. You can block them and that’s that. Or you can try to help them come clean with you so you can build a real relationship with them. Or you can even go as far as reporting them so they will be punished by the service. My advice is politely bid them farewell and move on to greener pastures.

To sort out if the person you just met is really as wonderful as they seem or if they are a poser, be clever and alert as you talk and look for these clues:

Do they move too quickly to talk about sex? People that want a relationship don’t go there very fast. If they really want to get to know you they will go slow and not rush to get intimate online.

Do they try not to tell you very much about their past? Most people have rich histories to share from and many funny stories to tell. If your friend does not offer those generously, it might be because there is no past to the character he or she is playing.

Watch for gender mistakes. If you are dealing with a poser who is not being their real gender, they probably don’t understand the gender they are trying to portray. You have talked to a real girl and a genuine man; they will express themselves easily and appropriately.

Do they avoid voice contact, have few pictures or keep stalling on making contact via webcam? Then obviously they are not who they have presented to you. Even if they provide a picture, this may be so. It’s a sad thing to report but posers steal pictures to complete their “persona”.

Keep some notes on your talks, particularly about their personal details and history. The good thing about IM is you can save your talks as text files to refer to later. If the relationship goes for a while, they may not remember their own “past” very well and you can catch those mistakes which show they are lying.

After a while you will become skilled at flushing out posers and be able to identify them easily so you can move past those contacts and nurture relationships with genuine people who are being honest and open with you and want to develop that kind of romance, the kind that can grow and become a beautiful part of each of your lives.

By: George Wood
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Successful Online Flirting: Six Tips for Men

Successful Online Flirting: Six Tips for Men by Chonticha Marijne

What works for "brick and mortar" flirting will also work for online flirting. Flirting is an art form and all good online dating relationships begin with successful flirting!

Effective flirting really is a skill that requires you to be confident without being over the top. If you overstep your boundaries, it's very likely that the lady will think that you are "slimy". If you hold back, it's probable that she'll find you "wimpy".

The challenge is to ride that fine line between being slimy and wimpy. You will also need to do it all online without having the benefit of eye contact or body language.

All you have is a computer, Internet access and your membership to an online dating site, right?

1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, upbeat, funny and entertaining. Keep it playful. You'll make her look forward to emailing or chatting with you again.

2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit that "feel good" factor. An optimistic attitude and confidence will attract women to you like a fragrant flower attracts bees.

3. Compliment her... and you should do it often, but be subtle and sincere. Mention her great smile, or the cute dog in her photo, or that you admire the fact that she plays the guitar. Nothing will open doors for you like making her feel good about herself. She will be eager to spend more time with you and to meet you and if she pays you a compliment in return, always respond with a "thank you". Under no circumstances be self-deprecating - it will just make you look wimpy.

4. Listen to her and then listen some more. Pay attention to what she has to say and ask her appropriate questions at the right time. This will encourage her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel that she is truly interesting and that you are interested in her. This will work wonders for your budding relationship!

5. Don't be rude. Flirting does not give you the right to be sexually explicit nor does it mean that you should take offense if the lady doesn't respond to you. If she isn't interested, save yourself the trouble and move on to your next prospect. If you find that you're receiving many rejections, you will want to reconsider your approach.

6. Send an email after you have chatted. This is the same as sending a thank-you note after receiving a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.

Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship and it should be fun and never a chore! However, your aim is not to spend too much time online, but to head for that first date so that you can test whether there is real chemistry between you. If the flirting has gone well, she'll be open to meeting you. If she's not interested, move on to the next candidate. You'll notice that you're getting better at it each time and before you know it, you'll have met your match!

About the Author
Chonticha Marijne enjoys writing about the challenges and dynamics of online dating. For more of her contributions, visit her blog at http://TheOnlineDatingBlog.com .

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How an Internet Pick-Up Artist Approaches A Woman Online

How an Internet Pick-Up Artist Approaches A Woman Online

Approaching a woman online, and getting it right is the most important thing to do after getting your profile ready. You need to get this part of your online dating spot on to make everything else you have done so far worthwhile.

You're not going to get that first e-mail right first time so you're own trial and error will be part of finding out what approach works best for you.

When you have found a single that you would like to contact make sure you read her profile through thoroughly. This is very important as your e-mail will be based around the information she has put in it. A woman won't put every detail in her profile to then respond to a message saying "I think you're hot would you like a chat." This might be the way men want to get approached but women are different.

You need to write an e-mail, and mention things that caught your eye in her profile. You have to make your e-mail stand out from all the others the single woman has had that day. You may even have sent the only e-mail, the rest just might be some flirts that other single men send to about 30 other women. This will make your message the first one she looks at.

Mentioning some things from her profile will show her that you have read it. Most men will just send a flirt to someone because they like the photograph. Women need more than this to send you a reply back. You need to make it personal this will at least get your message read. After this she will check your profile, and if she likes the look of that you will get your reply.

If you're going to add humor to your message make sure you aim it at yourself. You have to keep it in the flow of the e-mail though. Don't just start writing a joke just to look funny as this will just make her cringe. If humor isn't good coming from you you're better off leaving it out of your e-mail.

When approaching a woman online effectively you have to keep your e-mails fairly short. You don't need to start telling them about you. You will have plenty of time for this once you have had a reply. Just use your first e-mail to find out about them, and make the recipient feel your interest in her. This will make her feel better if your the only single man to show some real interest in your e-mail.

Never start pestering anyone. If they don't respond to your e-mail then move onto someone else. Your e-mails are not going to get replied to every time. Once the single women has read them they will then look at your profile. They have to be attracted to you for you to get a reply. If they're not attracted to you just get over it and move on.

If you stick to approaching women this way you will get a much higher reply rate than 95% of online dating service users.

By: Jason King
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Online dating tip for man - 3 tips to guarantee you more dates

Online dating tip for man - 3 tips to guarantee you more dates by Benjamin Ehinger

Are you sick of sitting at home on Fridays and Saturdays? Do you want to find more dates online and have a chance at finding what you are looking for? Here are my online dating tips for man.

Men need to make a woman feel comfortable in order to get a date from an online meeting. Women are going to be skeptical at first and you have to be patient as you help them get over that skepticism.

Be honest with women online or you will never get past the first chat. You have to understand that sooner or later they will find out who you really are anyway, so just let them know now. Start by being honest with your profile and with your conversation.

It is important that you instill safety in the woman. Make sure she is comfortable with an offline meeting and meet her in a public place. Allow her to invite a friend along if she chooses. When you meet her, don't be too pushy let her get to know you before you try to make any moves on her.

The best tip I can give you for online dating is to use only one dating site. There are many dating sites out there and each one of them is geared towards different things. Some want to help you find your soul mate and others just want you to be able to meet new people.

Use a site that fits your needs and wants. Find the site that will fulfill your desires and start meeting people now.

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Becoming a Master of Online Dating

Becoming a Master of Online Dating

There is a lot of curiosity about the world of internet romance and online dating. Much of that comes from all the media attention it gets. We see lots of advertisements for online dating services, which raises our interest. Then you can find people who write about finding their lover online or of the strange world of chat, email, online dating services, and cyber relationships that makes it all seem very strange and exotic.

The truth is you can find a very fun, fulfilling, and rewarding relationship or series of romantic relationships online. Think of the online world of romance like a whole new exciting world that you have not yet begun to explore. And because it is new, it is full of adventure, fun, excitement, and that joy of discovery that makes anything new a thrill to get involved with.

And just as you would any new world, you have to learn the tricks, the language, and the roads and pathways to success in getting to know people in the online world and eventually to developing warm, romantic relationships with the men and women you meet there. Here are some key areas to spend time on to make your online “presence” really shout out to the available dates in cyberspace.

Flash those Teeth

In the world of cyberspace, things like your picture and your profile are your face and presence to those who meet you. When you meet a person in real life, they can look at you and learn a lot about what kind of person you are. The picture that you post on your dating service or chat service will serve that same purpose.

Select your picture carefully. Make sure it shows your personality and is not stiff or formal. But also make sure it shows off what a hottie you are. It’s fine if you want to “stage” a picture. That is not phony any more than dressing up nice for a party or date is. Or go through your photos and find one that shows a lot of personality and says to the person “Get to know me”. Use that one and always be on the lookout for a better picture of you to swap out or use on new chat or dating services you start to use.

Your Profile: That Vital First impression

Your profile is that page of information that you provide about yourself. It provides the basics: your age, occupation, level of education, as well as things vital to the guy or girl who is looking at it with a mind for romance. That would include what you like in a romantic partner, what kinds of things you like to do when dating, and your views on romance, long-term relationships, marriage, and even children.

When filling this out, put yourself in the viewer’s shoes and give information that will draw him or her to you as a romantic prospect. Brief thoughts about your feelings about your family, religion, and commitment go a long way even at this early stage of your relationship.

But don’t forget to flirt with your profile. The title of the profile may be listed on pages and pages of profiles along with your picture, so put some creativity into what it says. If it is something funny, cute, or flirtatious that can draw someone to want to open your profile and read more, then it has done its job.

Email is the Third Big component

Your picture and profile are the one-two punch of stepping into the world of online dating. Handling your email correctly is the third major step. Whether responding to an inquiry email from someone who like your profile, or if you are making the first contact, treat that email like that first “hello” when beginning to flirt with someone.

Make it cute, interesting, flirtatious, and slightly romantic. Keep it short but put a “hook” into each email to make them want to answer you and learn more. Then as you begin to email and then move into chat or other forms of on line communications, you can begin to get more personal just as you would as you settle in at the club to get to know someone new.

Keep that parallel of meeting someone new at a party, flirting, making them feel interested and safe enough to draw in closer, being intriguing, fun and exciting as the relationship picks up speed and being that “perfect someone” to them as they get closer. As you use these tips to maneuver the relationship toward a routine online date or even further to the eventual first in-person date, you can become a genuine online dating master and the results will be fun and exciting online dates that might lead to much more later on.

By: George Wood
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Online dating tips for newbies

Online dating tips for newbies

These days the one of the best places to meet other lovelorn horn-balls is on dating websites. That's because people who place and respond to ads on these sites are serious about dating and less likely to be time wasters.

But like any dating scene there are certain tips and tricks that will make it easier for you to score. Take note of the following guidelines and you'll be well on the way to breaking that cursed sex drought:

Be pro-active
Rather than just waiting for people to respond to your ad, you'll speed up the process if you reply to others' ads. Use the search engines to find someone who tickles your fancy and send them an email. Make sure you read their ad carefully. If they're looking for a stroll down the aisle and you're looking for a roll in the hay, then don't waste their time or yours. There's plenty more singles out there.

Use a Web mail account
For your own peace of mind don't use an email account that can be traced back to you - especially not a work email address! You never know - your new friend might be a stalker! Use a
Web mail account such as HotMail (http://www.hotmail.com) or Start (http://www.start.com.au/).

Be honest!
Don’t oversell yourself and don't undersell yourself - just tell it like it is. This vastly increases your chances of meeting someone compatible. Tell them a bit about yourself, name, age, type of work, interests and hobbies. List as many of your interests as possible, but don't go into too much detail. You want to give enough information so that they can find some common ground, but not too much so that you bore them.

Don't rush it
You don’t have to unburden yourself of all your relationship baggage and issues in the first email. Wait until you get to know them a little better. Ditto dirty talk. Once you've exchanged a few emails then you might drop in some subtle sexual innuendo if it feels right.

You can be up-front
It's much easier to be bare your soul with someone via email than face to face. So take advantage of this and say what you really want. If you're after some occasional nookie with no strings, just say so. Likewise if you're looking for just a penpal, or to shack up and start working on a family.

Don't get your hopes up
If things go well, sooner or later you'll want to meet your new email pal. Don't get your hopes up too high - sometimes people who get on fabulously via email hate each other when they meet in real life (and vice versa).

By: CharlesFC

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Secrets to Successful Internet Dating

Secrets to Successful Internet Dating by Stephen Nash

Many guys nowadays are going online to meet women. And why not? There are some great services out there, and we have all heard too many success stories to downplay the potential of meeting great women online.

For starters, the best online services are nerve.com, match.com and lavalife.com. They are the best because they are the most popular. Being the most popular, they give you the best choice.

If you are skeptical about online dating, join the club. But, before you write it off completely, go to one of the above sites and do a free search. That should convince you that there are many attractive women who are looking for men online. So, why not try it out?

It is the social norm for men to approach women. So, if you are out at a bar or club and you see an attractive woman, you will have to approach her to meet her. Women typically don't approach men in social settings. They will signal their interest to you in many ways, but the actual "move" will have to be made by you.

The beauty of internet dating is that it gives women a forum to indicate what they want without it being embarrassing or socially "unacceptable". This helps to simplify things for men too - before you even send your initial email, you know some things about her and what she is looking for.

Let's cover some of the basic must's to successful internet dating:

1)The most important thing to have on your profile is good pictures. This should be obvious. Initial attraction is so critical when beginning a relationship. If it is not there, the two people will never come together.

To give yourself a fighting chance, get some good pictures of yourself. I am not talking about getting a pro photographer in tow, but rather have a friend with a digital camera take 20-30 pictures of you. Pick out three to four, and use them to launch your profile.

It's a good idea to put up a variety of pictures, such as: one in a suit, one dressed casually, one of you doing a hobby or conveying an interest of yours. Also, make sure you are smiling. Don't be one of those guys that posts pics with his shirt off, or with Zoolander male model face. Those are basically female-repellant. And please guys, don't make them pornographic - G-rated pictures only.

2)Next, you will have to send your initial email. This should be fairly short, but needs to be both funny and insightful. In other words, be sure to read her profile - let me repeat that - be sure to read her profile! So many guys send out standard emails to women online, and it is obvious to them that you have taken no time to read about her. If you read the profile, can make a light joke out of something she reveals, compliment her and share something in common, you have a strong chance of hearing back from her.

3)A great place to be humorous is in the subject line. She is more likely to open your email if it catches her attention. A great way to do this is with a humorous remark about something in her profile. Be sure to keep the humor lite,and never, NEVER, make fun of her picture.

4)As for the connection, be sure to quickly indicate that you have things in common with her. This helps to alleviate her anxiety about meeting you. If you have nothing in common, she will feel like there will be nothing to talk about and the date will be awkward and uncomfortable. For the purposes of the first contact, begin a conversation with her by indicating that you share commonalities.

To summarize, in the first email you want to cover these three things: humor, a compliment and make a connection.

A few final notes:

- Never use the "wink" function. "Wink"ing is for women to signal their interest to you. If she "wink"s, you send an email.

- Feel free to ask for her phone number after a couple of rounds of messages. A simple, "why don't we continue this by phone? I am happy to call you. If you're comfortable with that, reply with your number, and we'll take it from there."

- When on the phone, be sure to keep it very light, again using humor as much as possible. Talk for a few minutes, then arrange to meet her.

- The first date needs to be something where no $ is spent. Why? Sometimes, one or both of you are not happy with the look of the other. People often put up very flattering pictures, which don't resemble their actual look in real life. So, meet at a gallery, or a park, or a free event. You don't want to walk away from a first internet date having spent $50 on a meal do you? Meeting for coffee, in this case, is also a good idea.

- If you are out with her, and you do like her, a great compliment is: "You know, your pictures are great, but you are much more attractive in real life." This way, you help her relax. She is definitely going to feel awkward with her appearance and will hope you find her attractive. Put her mind at ease, and about 20 minutes into the date tell her she looks great.

- Lastly, the first date is a total wash. It is really to see if both of you feel any attraction. Make no fast decisions about personality and style after a first internet date. Usually, both you and she are very guarded. Wait until the second date at least until you begin to feel out her personality, her values, her style etc.

- Last, but not least - and this may be the best kept secret to internet dating. Be sure you check out the profiles of the women without pictures. Why, you ask? Often, these women are VERY attractive and don't have a pic up because they want to avoid getting 50+ emails per day from guys online. I am dead serious about this one guys. They post a profile in hopes that someone will actually READ it (hint) and treat them like a person, rather than a hot body. Be sure though that you get a picture from her before you meet her. That is fair, and she will understand. It is also true that very unattractive women do not include pictures.

So, good luck with the fascinating world of internet dating. I hope this has been helpful. As always, I wish you the best.

Your friend,

Stephen Nash
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Stephen Nash of Cutting Edge Image Consulting (CEIC) is author of the book How to Get A Girlfriend: The Seven Essential Skills for Attracting the Woman of Your Dreams and Natural Attraction, 7 CD Audio course on image enhancement and dating for men.

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How To Flirt Online Like an Internet Pick-Up Artist

How To Flirt Online Like an Internet Pick-Up Artist by Sean Cash

Flirting in an online dating service is pretty much just the same as it is in the offline world, except for a few great points, when you are flirting online you can do it with much more confidence and you do not have to worry about things like stuttering or saying something silly because you type everything you say and you can take as long as you need to reply to something.

Here are a few tips for flirting online:

Be pleasant. Try to be as pleasant as you can about everything you say, you aren't going to make a friend by saying a bunch of negative comments and making remarks about something in an unpleasant manner, just be pleasant when you talk with someone. If you feel as though you really want to say something unpleasant, just don't say anything at all, you know the saying "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all", well it's true, if you need to you can just say that you would like to change the subject of conversation.

Listen to the other person. When you are talking with someone, you should not hold the entire conversation yourself, let the other person put their opinions and views across and make sure they know that you are listening. It can be very frustrating when you say something and the person you are talking to completely ignores your comment, don't make others feel like that and they will like you more for it.

Compliment. Compliments can be very powerful for letting someone know that you like them and enjoy talking with them, try to compliment the person you are talking to about things like their profile picture, comments they make or anything that you feel deserves one.

Be fun. Make the conversation fun for both you and the other person, you can do this with simple little things like making short jokes or talking about funny things, just don't let the conversation become to serious until either you both need to talk about something serious. When you first meet someone it would be best to try and keep the conversations fun and light hearted.

Follow up. When you have a good conversation with someone and you would like to talk to them again, it is a great idea to send them an email or a message thanking them for the chat and to ask if they would like to chat again sometime, if they do want to, you should also initiate the next chat as this will show them that you are interested.

About the Author
Sean Cash is author of The Lazy Man's Guide To Dating. Get it Free at LazyDater.com.

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Conquer Rejection With The Secrets Of An Internet Pick-Up Artist

Conquer Rejection With The Secrets Of An Internet Pick-Up Artist by Sean Pearce

Are you sick of being told "I just want to be friends" or "you're a really nice guy but it's just not the right time in my life for a relationship" and about 99 other excuses you've heard over and over again?

I don't blame you. Sometimes it seems like a mystery when trying to find out what make some men successful with women when you are not - especially when you think you are doing everything right, just like you've been told or just like you read in the books.

But the good news is that there is now an easier route to dating success

Internet dating has made meeting beautiful women so much easier, hence why I've been using it for the last two years with great success.

There are many different ways to meet women and each has its own advantages. Ways such as :

* Personal ads * Speed dating * Through friends or colleagues * Singles events * Offline dating agencies * In bars and nightclubs * Taking evening courses

BUT...

Internet dating is king and here is why:

* It's cheap * It's quick * It's fun * It's simple to use * There are thousands of women in almost every area now online * They know you don't just want to be friends but that you are actively looking for a date and ultimately a partner. * And the biggest reason of all is that it's a great place to learn without the fear of face to face rejection

It's a fact of life that rejection is all part of the dating process, and even the most successful guys who date lots of different girls get rejected far more often than they ever get lucky.

In fact with online dating you can see how random the process really is and why you should not take rejection too personally.

Just like most things in life, dating is a simple numbers game. And even though the numbers may appear to be stacked against you they can still be turned in your favour. The more we can move them in your favour, the more successful with the type of women you want to date you will be.

Dating has never been as quick and easy as it is nowadays. On the internet you can simply put up a profile, play around with it until it sounds the way you want it and then off you go. A good way to look at it is like it's your own 24/7 automated dating machine that's attracting women for you around the clock! How cool is that?

And you don't have to be attractive, rich or extra special in any way. In fact, the guys I know who are most successful with women don't have a lot of money and are usually just average looking guys, unremarkable at first sight.

The difference is they know what women want, they know how to behave around women and they act in ways women find attractive.

And the good news is that this is all stuff that can be learned.

About the Author
Sean Pearce has published many articles and several books on dating, how to attract women and overcoming anxiety with women. You can get a free sample book along with a free mini course in dating at OnlineDatingSecrets.co.uk

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Dating Advice for Internet Pick-Up Artists: Don’t Set Off Her “Player Alarm”

Dating Advice for Internet Pick-Up Artists: Don’t Set Off Her “Player Alarm”

By: Spencer Michaels

A major mistake that many guys make is dimming the lights as soon as they get the girl onto the couch. This is one of several “Player Alarms” that men often do that make women think, “Oh God, he’s about to make a move”. Another thing that a lot of guys do is turn on some romantic music right away. This is another major alarm that screams, “I‘m a player and I’m about to try to get into your pants”.

A smooth guy is careful not to set off these alarms in women. A smooth guy let’s her flip through the TV channels for a while, keeps the conversation going for a little bit and then casually strolls over to the CD player and asks her if she wants to listen to some music. Also - don’t turn the TV off and fiddle around with your music collection for a long time in silence. Have some music nearby so you can get it playing fairly quickly. Don’t have it already cued up because then it looks like you had it all set up. Remember - women love spontaneity. If any of this looks contrived it’s an instant turn-off.

Choice of music is not to be underestimated. Now I know that when many guys think romantic music they have visions of Barry White and other standard love song singing pop artists but I have to say many women find this stuff cheesy. I know a lot of you are reading this saying, “c’mon - chicks love that stuff”, and I agree that lots do love that kind of music but it also screams “cheesy!!!”. It also shows a lack of originality. Here’s your chance to keep some intrigue going. Come up with something more original. A few artists that are great for this are Portis Head, Bjork and Massive Attack to name a few. They are sexy, different, mysterious and they don’t yell, “I learned my romantic musical taste from American Idol”.

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How an Internet Pick-Up Artist Gets More Replies on Dating Sites

How to Get More Replies on Dating Sites by Lin Parker

Online dating sites offer to connect you with hundreds and even thousands of singles in your area who are looking to find someone to date. Some of them offer free membership, but do watch out here, you may complete your profile and then find out that you cannot actually reply to messages unless you pay an upgrade membership fee. However, that may not be a bad thing if you are seriously looking to meet someone. Many of the sites offering full membership for free attract a lot of youngsters who are just looking for some online fun. You may also find that not all profiles are genuine - you will find a few who are there to promote some kind of internet business on their profile, or they just have a fake photo as they feel they will get more replies that way.

If you have sent out a lot of messages, but not received many responses, please bear in mind that for some reason there are many more men on these sites than women. The attractive women get bombarded with messages ... maybe 100 or more each day... so they are only going to reply to a small number of those. Follow these tips to increase your success rate:

Upload at least 1 good photo to your profile, preferably a head and shoulders shot so that people can see what you look like from a quick glance. A photo of you posing against your car won't be close up enough to stand out on the small picture in your profile. Make sure your photo is a recent one. You will just be wasting the other person's time if they arrange to meet you, and you look nothing like your photo. A mix of photos which include a full length shot shows your overall physique and dress sense, which can be important to the person you are hoping to attract. Try and say something original in your profile ... read a few profiles to see what most people say. " I enjoy cosy nights in with a bottle of wine and the occasional wild night out" applies to 99% of people ... if you say something a bit unusual, this will stand out from other profiles. If you want to send messages to a lot of people, you may be tempted to "copy and paste" the same message to everyone. This is a HUGE MISTAKE. Women especially can spot this a mile off and are unlikely to reply. Say something in your message which shows you have read their profile. Do not offer your phone number or MSN address in the first message. This can give the impression you are desperate to find someone, or can't be bothered to take the trouble to get to know someone a little before deciding if you want to meet up.

If you follow these tips and still have no joy, try a different dating site. There are many to choose from. If you can view profiles before signing up, you should be able to get an idea of the number of possible matches in your area. Most people are looking for someone close to where they live. For adult dating in the UK, US, Spain, France, Australia and many other countries worldwide, visit www.888dates.co.uk and www.888dates.com.

About the Author
Lin Parker runs a number of websites in the dating and fashion industry. Visit her new designer fashion website at http://www.gucci-gucci.co.uk.

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How an Internet Pick-Up Artist Writes a Killer Online Profile

How an Internet Pick-Up Artist Writes a Killer Online Profile by Groshan Fabiola

Without any doubt, Internet dating is the simple, quick and fun way to find the best dates possible. Although at first online dating was regarded as a masquerade leading many people to debate its efficiency and predict an unfortunate future for this practice, today the phenomenon enjoys a lot of exposure and positive feed-back, and has become the new trend in dating. Contrary to early beliefs, Internet dating not only works, but also has the power to connect and match people in a blink of an eye! In addition, it allows people to interact in a fun, stimulating and relaxed manner, melting down all inhibitions and constraints characteristic to regular dating.

Amazed by the great efficiency of online dating and impressed by its non-demanding and entertaining nature, increasingly larger numbers of singles nowadays rely on various Internet resources such as Online Personals and Dating Services in their quest for suitable dates, a partner for a long-term relationship or even a life companion. With the right Online Personals website, a properly conceived online advert, lots of confidence and good motivation, singles can find suitable dating partners quickly and effortlessly.

As soon as you become the member of a reliable free Online Personals website, you will receive various member benefits. These include: -Free Photo Profile (relevant pictures are the best substitute for words) -Ad Free Search (offers the opportunity to browse through the online advert database and find suitable matches) -Ad Response Message (allows members to post comments regarding the content of viewed online adverts) -Unlimited access in chat rooms (the perfect place to find out more about anyone you are interested in)

Once you join the Dating - Online Personals Services that best suit your needs and requirements, the first thing you should do is start creating your own online profile.

Considering the fact that the online profile is a powerful tool for drawing attention, achieving good popularity and interacting with potential dates, it is very important to pay lots of attention when writing this kind of advert. While an interesting online profile gives you a major advantage in finding the right dates, a poorly constructed profile will get you nowhere! Here are some hints on how to write a killer online profile, guaranteed to help you on the track of finding suitable dating partners:

First of all, have fun writing your online profile! When you have fun writing it, chances are the readers will also have fun reading it. Also remember to pay the right attention to your profile - elaborate the relevant aspects regarding your personality and interests, remembering to include all the necessary detail. Although you can edit your profile later on, it is best to submit a good profile right from the start. Focus your writing on your personality and try to bring out the personal traits that separate you from the rest. Be original, inventive and describe yourself in writing just as you would in oral speech, avoiding using pretentious expressions and unneeded emphatic adjectives. Avoid bragging about the size of your bank account, the car you drive or your great looks! These sorts of comments can put you in a bad light, generating undesirable results.

While everyone appreciates a coherent and properly spelled online profile, you shouldn't fall into extremes and write down an academic (and boring) description of you. In order to obtain the best results, you should use warm, friendly and accessible language. Your online profile should breathe confidence and originality; it should be relevant, interesting and properly constructed.

Don't hesitate to use humour! Everyone likes someone with a good sense of humour, so it is advisable to insert a few good jokes in your profile. However, be cautious when using this approach - stick to harmless, innocent jokes and humorous comments. If you're not careful about the nature and amount of jokes in your profile, the readers might form a wrong impression and regard you as arrogant or annoying. The same rule applies when you opt for self-deprecating jokes and sarcasm: use them carefully, as your goal is not to emphasize your major defects, but to bring out your qualities and appealing personal traits.

Also, be extra careful when describing your ex-dates and past relationships - it is best not to introduce unnecessary information about "what went wrong", "who made the most mistakes" and "who ended the relationship". When describing past relationships you should present a simple, brief story without untactful comments and tasteless details. Try to avoid using inadequate comments when describing your "dream date" as well.

Try to be as honest and sincere as you can! Although many people tend to exaggerate the things they write in their profiles, avoid lying at any cost! Sooner or later, the truth will be revealed and you may lose credibility, jeopardizing an existing relationship and making the task of finding matches more difficult in the future.

Last, but not least, make full use of pictures! A few relevant, high-quality personal photographs will add value to your profile and draw the interest of more potential dates. A good photo can tell a great story and can compensate for a less imaginatively written profile. Choose your best photos and confidently present them to the opposite sex! Confidence and positivity are appreciated by the online dating community, so you have a lot to gain from attaching a set of representative personal photos to your written online profile.

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Online Dating Tips for the Internet Pick-Up artist: A Guide To Virtual Relationships

Online Dating Tips for the Internet Pick-Up artist: A Guide To Virtual Relationships by Wanchil Colin

It used to be quite the laughing matter when someone was coerced into admitting that they had tried one of the various online dating services. It was viewed as, more or less, a last ditch effort, an act of desperation. I can still remember the day that I asked a friend of mine how he met his girlfriend and he said, with embarrassment, that he met her online. In recent years, however, online dating has really taken off and is becoming a very popular way to meet other singles. A combination of people being busier and the technological advances that make virtual communication easier have led to the rise in popularity of this once mocked activity. There are a lot of good things associated with online dating but there are also some dangers. I'd like to present a few tips for online dating that will help you in your quest to find Mr. Or Mrs. Right.

Be Specific Don't be intentionally vague when it comes to what you are looking for or who you are. The more vague you are, the more people you will get responses from that you will wish you wouldn't get a response from. If you don't like short guys, say so. If you are looking for someone over 40, say so. When someone is looking through the different profiles and comes across yours, make sure that you have information in there that will allow him to evaluate whether or not he is interested. "I enjoy romance and fun people" is not going to cut it.

Be Optimistic In doing a little research for this article I found an amazing number of profiles that said things like "I don't really think this will work, just wanted to see what happened", or "I'm only doing this because someone dared me to", or, and this was my personal favorite, "I can't find anyone to date where I live so I just figured I would try this out". Be positive in your description of yourself. Nobody wants to go out with someone who can't get a date anywhere else and nobody wants to feel like they are a part of something that is designed to give losers a second chance.

Be Patient Just because you don't get five invitations on the first day that you log on doesn't mean that you will single for the rest of your life. Like everything else, this may take some time. Don't rush things.

Be Classy If you put a profile up with pictures of you half naked and striking provocative poses, you probably are not going to get responses from genuinely interested, decent people. Don't talk about your sexual habits or fantasies. If sex between you and your partner is something that is going to happen, great, but let the details be worked out between the two of you in private, not out in public. You don't want to attract people who are trying to prey on someone they consider "easy".

Be Careful Finally, be careful about what you say and do. We all know that it is not a good idea to put your social security number and mother's maiden name up as a part of your profile. It also is not a very good idea to post things like your street address and phone number. If you meet a stranger in person you would get to know them before telling them that kind of information and it is even more important to keep that information private in an online dating setting. Remember, everything that you put on that profile is available to anybody that wants to look at it. Start slowly and build trust. Chat online, then exchange numbers. Meet in a public place quite a few times before you invite a person to your home or go to theirs. Be safe and you will be happy.

And Finally... Have fun! Online dating is a great way to meet people with similar lifestyles and interests. You will have the opportunity to meet people that will enrich your life in so many ways. And, not if you are lucky, but if you are wise, perhaps you will meet the one person who completes you and who is completed by you. And when people ask you how you met, you can tell them with no shame whatsoever, "We met online!"

About the Author
Wanchil Colin for Date Real Singles. He is 27 years of age, grew up in the up State of New York, have a bachelor's degree, travel quit a bit in all the U.S. states, dated all types of women, been in many relationships but none was as succeful as he wanted them to be so he decided to have a professinal website http://www.daterealsingle

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How an Internet Pick-Up Artist Comes Up with Cool Chat Up Lines

How an Internet Pick-Up Artist Comes Up with Cool Chat Up Lines by Groshan Fabiola

Lots of singles who become members of Dating Services websites are faced with a series of impediments in initiating or entertaining online conversations. Just like in real-world situations, fresh dating website members and inexperienced chatters usually find approaching singles in chat rooms difficult due to poor self-confidence and the omnipresent fear of being rejected. However, once you understand the basic rules behind online chatting, become aware of its simplicity and find the right ice-breaking lines, online chatting suddenly becomes a fun and stimulating experience.

It's the simple, fun and non-demanding nature of online chatting that has turned it into a common practice these days, attracting increasingly larger numbers of people and enabling them to interact freely in chat rooms. First of all, online chatting is by far less challenging than regular, face-to-face conversations, as it eliminates a series of constraints and barriers, enabling chatters to act naturally and be themselves when having a fun, interesting dialogue with other persons. Secondly, online chatting enables singles to meet and know hundreds of potential dating partners quickly, effortlessly and in a relaxed, safe and entertaining environment. Thirdly, online chatting is renowned for its great potential of bringing people together. Thousands of singles have found their dating partners, long-term relationship partners or even life companions via online dating chat rooms. Considering these facts, feel free to actively participate in chat rooms and take full advantage of their offered benefits!

Most people are permanently looking for 100 percent reliable icebreakers, considering that the lines used for initiating online conversations can decide whether they are accepted or rejected by persons of the opposite sex. However, these beliefs are totally unfounded! As long as you don't use any offensive, debasing chat up lines and you don't bore your chat partners to death, there is absolutely no reason for you to be rejected in online conversations. It is important to note that there is no guaranteed-to-work approach to online conversations and even the "catchy" chat up lines that work for some people may fail to produce the same results for others. The only key to successful, entertaining and captivating online conversation is to be relaxed, honest and make full use of your personality!

The following collection of popular, commonly used chat up lines should be considered as a guide for initiating first-time conversations with singles of the opposite sex. Their main purpose is to familiarize you with the 'dos' and 'don'ts' behind online chatting and to help you come up with your own original chat up ideas. First of all, let's have a look at the clichés of chat up icebreakers, lines that aren't very likely to produce any desirable effects.

Avoid using ineffective lines such as: "Hi! Do you know any cool opening lines?", "You seem like a man / woman who knows how to talk to women / men!", "You've got to tell me your name, 'cause last night in my dreams I could only call you baby", "What's a great girl / boy like you doing in a place like this?"; or very offensive and tasteless lines such as: "Given that God is infinite and that the universe is also infinite, would you like a shag?". As long as you stay away from such cheesy, ridiculous chat up lines, and you come up with more interesting, fun icebreakers, things can't possibly go wrong!

Some of the most commonly used chat up lines that have produced great results among both male and female chatters are the following:

- "Hi! How are you doing?" - simple, predictable yet very efficient icebreaker!

- "Excuse me, do you know how to spell the word ..." - asking for someone's opinion is a great trick for initiating conversation!

- "Can you tell me what's the best way to ..."

- "Nice weather we have today, isn't it?"

- "I really like the way you introduce yourself"

- "This is an interesting / fun thread, can I join you?"

- "You sound bored so I thought I'd cheer you up!"

- "Someone as lovely as you deserves to talk to someone much better than me..." - modesty is always appreciated; however, there is the risk of being regarded as unconfident!

- "10 ton penguin..." - wait for a response and then reply: "Well, I had to break the ice somehow!"

- "I've lost my phone number, can I have yours?"

- "What's your sign?"

- "Hi, you don't know me, but I dreamt about you last night and I thought it would be fair to introduce myself."

These are commonly used chat up lines that have produced favorable results and can be successfully used in most dating chat room conversations. Feel free to experiment with them and don't hesitate to create your own imaginative and ingenious icebreakers and chat up lines! Remember that originality always pays off so spend some time developing your own irresistible lines!

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